10 Common Myths About Senior Living


Most of us have our own ideas about what senior living communities are like. Many believe that senior living community is interchangeable with the term nursing home but they are in fact two very different options for older adults. While many leading senior living communities do provide higher level healthcare services and assistance found in traditional nursing homes, they offer seniors so much more than simply age-related support.

Senior living today focus greatly on the ideal senior lifestyle. Often, it takes a family visiting a community like Tuscan Gardens to actually debunk the myths they’ve believed about a community lifestyle. But we’re always thrilled to share the good news that senior living is far beyond their expectations.

10 Myths About Senior Living Debunked

For those of you who may not need as much convincing, we’ve compiled ten of the most-commonly believed myths about senior living. We recognize that, unfortunately, many of these myths formed due to poor experiences with less-than-ideal communities, but we also believe that we have created a whole new reality for seniors and their families.

Myth #1 – Senior Living Communities Feel Institutionalized.

Reality – When some picture a senior living community, images of long, white hallways and bright fluorescent lighting emerge, giving way to associations with hospitals and similar institutions. In reality, though, senior living communities are often homelike, comfortable and more closely resemble a resort than a hospital. At Tuscan Gardens, the community is designed for sprezzatura – a culture of effortless elegance. The furnishings are comfortable, the decorations beautiful, the grounds lush and the windows high for as much natural light as possible.

Myth #2 – These Communities Are for “Old” People.

Reality – While most residents range from age 55 through their nineties, you’ll find that the majority of independent – and even assisted – living residents don’t meet the stereotypical expectations of old and decrepit. Senior living communities are designed for active older adults who still have a lust and zest for life. Residents at Tuscan Gardens enjoy daily recreational, leisure and even educational activities that keep them rejuvenated and engaged. Even those who may require some assistance due to health issues still consider themselves lively and active. Our culture makes it easy to keep living life to the fullest.

Myth #3 – I’ll Lose My Independence at a Senior Living Community.

Reality – Many confuse living independently with living on their own. While you may no longer own your own home, life at a senior living community can be as independent as you want it. Residents aren’t limited to where they can go or what they can do. In fact, many seniors find that letting go of the responsibilities of homeownership allows them the freedom to finally live the way they’ve always wanted to! Plus, communities such as Tuscan Gardens are loaded with amenities and activities that give you countless opportunities for fun and relaxation your way.

Myth #4 – I’ll Have to Give Up My Favorite Hobbies.

Reality – Actually, the opposite is true! Without the time-consuming tasks of home-upkeep, you’ll have nothing but time to spend on the things you love to do. Love antiquing? Enjoy complimentary transportation to the local shops. Always carrying a camera around? Find other residents who share the same passions and plan a day trip to go take photos together, then hold an art show at the community. Additionally, you’ll have the chance to try new things and discover new hobbies. Check out our extensive list of activities available at Tuscan Gardens.

Myth #5 – Paying for Senior Living Is More Expensive Than Living at Home.

Reality – Some families looking into senior living are often surprised by the sticker shock of monthly rates. While cost varies depending on apartment size or levels of care, the average cost of senior living is often comparable or even less than receiving the same services and support at home. Even for those who have paid off their mortgage, homeownership is still costly. Consider insurance, taxes, upkeep and repairs, utilities, emergency expenses, etc. At a senior living community, everything is included in one convenient rate – not to mention the convenience of having entertainment, social events, housekeeping services and care support if every needed right at your fingertips.

Myth #6 – I Won’t Be Able to See My Friends as Frequently.

Reality – Senior living communities like Tuscan Gardens are extremely visitor-friendly. Both common areas and private suites graciously accommodate guests, family get-togethers and even parties. Friends are always welcome to join in an activity or stop by for lunch or coffee. Just because your residence changes doesn’t mean your social life has to! Actually, many choose to move to a senior living community because they desire to have a rich social life.

Myth #7 – Meals Are Plain and Unappetizing.

Reality – One of the most overlooked benefits of senior living is the consistency of multiple nutritious meals each day, as well as the inclusion of venues for unlimited snacks and beverages. At Tuscan Gardens, the food is anything but unappetizing. Meals are prepared in our open, cozy Tuscan Kitchen, and seasonal menus are crafted and executed by our very own Tuscan Chef. Our signature dining delivers varied selections every day, created with the best and freshest ingredients – some of which are even grown right at our community.

Myth #8 – I Won’t Have Any Privacy at a Community.

Reality – Residents have the choice of how much or how little time alone they want each day. Private suites are comfortable and accommodating, and you can choose to spend the whole day reading in your favorite arm chair if you wish. Privacy is respected by all staff members, as well as other residents, who understand and share the desire for a non-intrusive environment. And, when you do feel like socializing, all you have to do is step outside. You have the best of both worlds when it comes to spending time how and with whom you want.

Myth #9 – I Won’t Be Able to Personalize My Space.

Reality – While it’s true that a community probably won’t allow you to paint the walls or refinish the bathroom tiles to match your towels, most communities encourage residents to decorate their suites with personal items and pictures and bring along their own pieces of furniture if they wish. Downsizing to a smaller home can be a difficult task, but most senior living communities won’t make you sacrifice your style and taste in the process.

Myth #10 – I Shouldn’t Move Until I Need Help Taking Care of Myself.

Reality – Many have the idea that senior living communities are only for those who require assistance with daily activities. However, many seniors are making the choice to spend their healthy retirement years at a senior living community. Not only does community living come with convenience and a full, carefree lifestyle, but moving while you are still healthy allows you to stay in control of your choices. Waiting until an illness or health crisis occurs may rush the moving process and leave you wishing you had more options. In addition, many independent living communities also have higher levels of care, including assisted living and memory care services, that established residents can take advantage of without the worry of moving again.

Come See Quality Senior Living for Yourself!

If we haven’t convinced you about the engaging lifestyles available at Tuscan Gardens, we invite you to stop by for a visit. Stay for a meal and taste the creations of our Tuscan Chef. Join our residents for an outing to the theater or showcase your skills at a painting class.

To learn more about our comfortable, elegant communities, contact us today!